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But loads of tech experts on the internet have analysed how the app works to figure out the mechanisms behind it, sharing the most likely algorithms behind our matches and explaining why Tinder functions the way it does. After you swipe through the super-fit people, you’ll then be shown loads of profiles who’ve already swiped right on you, and are eagerly awaiting your swipes.As this Quora thread explains, the first profiles we see when we open Tinder are not random or in order of proximity. Alex Mark theorises that the first ten to fifteen cards you see are profiles who haven’t necessarily swiped right on you, but people that have been sorted into the ‘more attractive’ bracket of the site. So that Tinder can convince you that there are LOADS of fit people on the app. That’s why you get more instant matches when you first re-open the app. For the other person it could have been DAYS since they swiped right.Tinder will apparently add in some non-matches while you swipe, so you don’t get a very obvious string of instant matches within the first minute. And not just because (obviously) you’re able to swipe on more people.As far as we can tell, if you don’t open the app for ages, your profile is less likely to be shown.But here's one rule I'm done with: staying on a dating site until you have The Talk. Hear me out: If you like someone and you've been dating regularly, why let your actions totally negate your feelings just to maintain the invisible "upper hand"?Believe me, I know that's the norm, and I know why you're doing it. Why give someone the impression you're still out there playing the field and meeting other people and maybe aren't that interested instead of giving the true impression that you afraid to take a chance? After that, whenever you've been dating long enough to develop some feelings—not to mention that telltale yucky-guilty feeling when you're on a date with someone else—it's kind of weird to still act so mysterious.
Dating expert Dr Jessica Carbino, who studied the findings for Tinder, explained that it’s all to do with being able to see the eyes of a potential partner – something which is crucial to finding someone attractive or not. Either way, you Research shows that there are 50 million active users on Tinder who check their accounts 11 times per day and spend an average of 90 minutes per day on the app. When it first came onto the scene, it was used more as a hook-up/no strings sex app because it finds you potential matches based on their proximity to you. It finds your location using GPS, then uses your Facebook information to create your profile but don’t worry – nothing about Tinder will ever be posted to Facebook.
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I haven’t, but I don’t harshly judge people that have because I understand why they would.
And just seeing that someone has been active isn’t necessarily useful information- they could’ve been active for a variety of reasons.
Have you ever seen the same people on multiple dating sites and rolled your eyes? To hear what I feel about being on multiple online dating sites, click here. Of course, I live in a relatively small town so it’s easy to recognize locals, but I also see the same faces from larger metropolitan areas.
Have you ever spied on someone to see if they’re still using the site when you think you’re starting to get serious?